Yesterday Shane came to me with a website to look at for the Indianapolis Scottish Rite Cathedral, saying “this is my idea of beautiful”. And it definitely is! So today we went and took a tour, and luckily enough the event manager was in her office and able to meet with us after the tour. After talking with her we realized one of our best options is the South Lounge for both the ceremony and reception, with a cocktail hour in the Lobby while the caterer sets up for the reception. The price for that was fairly reasonable for the Indianapolis area.
Then, at lunch, we read through the information the event manager gave us and found the catering minimum for the South Lounge. $10,000!!!!!!
It took me all day to catch my breath from seeing that. And I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. Comparing it to the price of the IMU is just crazy. But, comparing the venues is absolutely no contest. If I get a job and we save $1000/mo together ($500 each) for the next 22 months, then we will be able to do it (based on the budget planner I’m using).
Two main things that are keeping me convinced that this is “it” are:
There is no more perfect place for Shane to get married. (That’s my opinion.) The precision of measurements in the architecture just screams “Shane” to me.
If we go anywhere else, I will be kicking myself in the butt for the rest of my life because we didn’t get married there. Along with it being something that Shane thought of, something Shane loves, etc, it is one of the most beautiful buildings I have ever been in. It suits the “fairytale” concept perfectly, and it would truly make me feel like royalty. [Most people] only do this once in their life, and I will be one of those people. And if I do something, we all know I’m going to do it right.
Anyway, here are the pictures. The inside is much more beautiful in person, and looks even better when they’re set up for a wedding.

The original main entrance to the Cathedral. At night it is lit up in blue and green lights.

The towers at the Indianapolis Scottish Rite Cathedral.

The lobby of the Cathedral. Very dim lighting inside, which caused some issues for my camera with focusing. But you can still see the general beauty here.

Some of the beautiful hand-carved detail on the ceiling of the Lobby.

The beautiful South Lounge.

The Tiler Room, just inside the original main entrance. There is way too much detail in the entire building to possibly capture in a single photo.

The Theater. This is another option for the ceremony, but I think its too big. We’d only use the stage and the floor area in front of it, but it would still be too big for me personally.

Shane’s grandfather was a member of the Scottish Rite until just recently. We found his picture in the archives.